Unit6
FourWaystoFeelGood
Wearealllookingforhappiness,andfeelinggoodisthekeytoasucdmeanihowmanyofusmakeitapriority?Howofteomakingourselvesfeelgood?Ibelievethathappinessissoimportantthatitshouldoce。
In“Man’sSeareaning”,ViktorFraweenstimulusahereisagap,andinthisgapliesallourfreedom。”Frahisinsightafterspendingseveralyearsinioncamps,duringwhichtimehediscoveredthatthosewhobelievedtheyhadsometrolovertheirlivesweremorelikelytosurvive。
Ofcourse,wedonotexperieremes,butthemessagethatweareintrolofourownthoughtsandhowwerespondtosituationsisavitaloernalize。
Happinessisachfromthisknowledge,risinglypowerfullocus(部位、场所)ofiheworld。
sciouslydirectyhts。Thisisnoteasyformostofus,sincewehavebeenedtobelievethathtsandfeeliourowninnerworld。Infact,htsefirst,andourexperiencefollows。sciouslyghtsisanamazingwaytogesaably,ourexperienceoflife。
Forexample,supposeyoufeelupeoplewilldwellonthisbadfeelingandstartthamentalroutihinking。Butifyoustarttoplayaapeinyourhead,youwillbesurprisedatthethewayyoufeel。Replaegativethoughtswithsomethinglike,“Ifeelgoodandgoodthingsareingintomylife。”Repeatitoverandain。Withinashorttime,you’llstarttofeelbetter。
It’sfirst,butthisisaskillwhich,likeanyother,bepracticed。Ifyent,youwillimproveandpositivethoughtswillbeeseature。
&imist。Studieshavesholetimisticoutlooklivelongerahierlives。Didyoukhat—optimisticheart-bypass(心脏导管手术)patientsarehalfaslikelyaspessimiststobere-hospitalized?Happypeoplehavelowerbloodpressure?Themostpessimistiaremorethantwiceaslikelytodevelopheartdiseaseparedwiththemostoptimistic?
&imistiotaboutbeingaPollyanna(盲目乐观的人)andignproblems。
It’saboutbelievingthatsolutionsbefound,livihusiasm,beiiveandalentonewpossibilities。
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Nobodykure。Theonlythingwebefairlysureaboutisthatthiurnouttheect。Sowhyworryaboutworstarios(事态,情况)?Thingsbeseeninagoodlightorabadlight—problemsbeopportunities;failuresbelearningexperienleadtogrowth。Whereyouputyourfocusisaake。
Takeawalk。Thehealthbesofuted,buttherearealsopsychologiefits。Studieshaveshowhatalleviatethesymptomsofdepression。Alongutsomeemotionaldistaweenyourselfandroblemyou’reexperienditwillhelptoclearyourhead。
Iespeciallyreendtakingawalkattheendoftheday。Insteadofgonthecouch,watgTV,goingtoabarorwhateverelseyoudotounwindafterwoforawalkinstead。You’llbegettingsomegoodexercise,itwillhelpwithyestionandyou’llbeabletosleepbetter。Tryit。Walkingtributetoyourhappiness。
Feelinggoodissoimporta’sthewholepointofbeingalive。Sodoimeoy。Taketrol!
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1。priorityn。1)优先权,重点2)优先考虑的事1)Ihavepriority。
我有优先权。
2)Thedevelopmeionaleyisatoppriority。
发展国民经济是应予以最优先考虑的事。
2。itv。1)犯罪;犯错2)承诺;使自己受约束1)Hehasittedaseriousfault。
他犯了严重错误。
2)Askedifhewasadidate,herefusedtoself。
当问到他是不是候选人时,他不置可否。
Hehasittedhimselftosupportthem。
他答应负担他们的生活。
3。insightn。洞察力,洞悉,深刻的见解Heisamainsight。
他是个很有见识的人。
Hisspeechgaveusaninsightintotheproblemsofedu。
他的演讲使我们对教育问题有了深入的了解。
4。survive1)vi。幸存,活下来2)vt。比……活得长,经历……之后还存在1)Theseplantsotsurviveinveryditions。
这些植物在严寒中不能存活。